Author: chadwickbaldwin

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A Canadian teacher in China

Education from this old man’s Point of View.

We, as a culture, are still riding high on the thought that we are the epitome of modern educated society. I beg to differ, it’s hard enough being a child in this world, but when you have to deal with childish adults, it makes life much harder. Teachers are struggling with parents to get good habits into the children. We teach kids about good nutrition, and healthy snacks, mom and dad fill them with chocolate and fast food. We teach the kids proper etiquette, mom and dad undo that by swearing, being rude and shoving their self-importance around in front of the kids. We teach the kids that drugs are bad for their mind and body, mom and dad are toking it up at home.     We, as adults tell our children to go outside & play, to stop sitting in front of a screen (phone, tablet, computer, or TV) and yet, what do we do? We sit staring at social media on our phones, tablets, or computers, then when we switch it off WE turn on the video games, or we read on the screen. To a child, the hypocrisy is amazing. It boils down to the old adage “Do what I say, not what I do.” I want to raise my kids better than that, don’t you?

The comment “Smart phones, dumb people” comes to mind a lot lately. Adults have stopped processing information. We are supposed to be role models for our children, and yet they are the ones who are stopping to think about the whys and the hows of the world. Remember when you had to memorize your phone number and your friend’s phone numbers? Very few adults do that now. My students still do that. People don’t process what they read anymore. I have gotten so tired of seeing these “memes” of quotes from famous people or CEOs. And if you google the article it is from, the article has nothing to do with the quote. A perfect example is a picture of Peter Brabeck (CEO of Nestle) quoting that “water is not a human right,” if you read his article in The Guardian, (http://www.theguardian.com/sustainable-business/nestle-peter-brabeck-attitude-water-change-stewardship) he’s not stating an opinion, he’s stating a fact that he feels needs to be changed. My old high school classmates are terrible for posting things like this, and I periodically go and post the article it is originally from, not the editorial that blew it out of proportion. If students see their parents grabbing 1 quote of an article and focusing on that only, why can’t they do the same for their textbooks? Or their whole school year. Boil it down to 1 sentence.

“Well Johnny, what did you learn in grade 3?”

“Flying cats are purple”

“Great job.”

This kind of attitude does come out in students once in a while in my class, but usually we talk through the activity to make sure that the article is not boiled down, but understood as a whole.

As a teacher, I have invited my students to bring and use tablets in class. My boss was against this originally, until I explained what I was doing. I give my students digital copies of the textbook if they bring their device, and we do online educational activities near the end of the class. It teaches them that these machines are not just for games. Yes I do have a couple of kids who try to play Minecraft or the like in class, but that’s just like when we used to slip comic books inside an open textbook as kids. If you monitor them and guide them, as a teacher, as a parent, as an adult, they stop trying it. They work through activities, completely, explain what they understood from the activity, and discuss it.

Most of the world views teaching and educating as a means to benefit their kids, prepare them for the future, and as an honourable profession. Did you know there is an international teacher’s day? (October 5th in Canada, Tuesday in the first full week in May, in the USA) Students and parents give gifts or cards to express their gratitude for helping raise the young, and prepare them for the future. In North America Teachers are viewed as glorified babysitters. They have to fight to get resources, or even enough pay to survive. Any difficulties with the speed a child learns, teacher’s fault. Two quotes come to mind: in Korea they say “Father, Mother, Teacher, under god.” Which means the most important people to a child are: their parents and teachers. In Canada I have heard: “Good grades: good student, Bad grades: bad teacher” In Canada it’s apparently a lose-lose for the people who are actually educating the kids. I’m not asking for gifts or praise as an educator, but as a parent, I think we should stop vilifying the educators and give them the support they need to help our children.

The 3 stages of integrating to a new place.

A student and I had this conversation the other day and it has been rolling around in my head since. The conversation started with a comment of his that someone he knew had plans to move to a new country every year for the next few years. This year had been his first of the series, Vancouver being in Canada, and this fellow felt that since Vancouver was so easy to acclimate to for him (Coming from China) it would be easy for the rest of the world.

From my experience and my observations of traveling around like I do Traveling to live anywhere, Whether is be a new city or new country, follows 3 normal stages. each of the stages lasts about a year, for most people, but like anything people related it changes for person to person. Keep in mind that these stages generally only apply if you had a choice in the matter of moving, if you didn’t that stage 1 is skipped

Stage 1 is the Tourist, WOW factor stage. While in this stage everything about your new place is cool. You love going around and seeing the new things, or if your an indoorsy person, you just feel like this place is nice and so cool compared to your hometown / where you just left. The new town / country offers so much more than you had hoped. There is a lot to do and experience. You focus on the positives, and the benefits of living in this new location. Just like a tourist you find the place fascinating.

Stage 2 is the “Man this sucks” stage. The tourist, wow factor has worn off, you miss where you came from. You start to fantasize how much better the last place was. You get moody, and worried about things, because you can’t find what you like or need in the new area. Thing just haven’t stacked up to what you had dreamed, you feel homesick or isolated. At this stage you focus a lot on the negatives, the problems you are facing, and the positives tend to fade from you mind.

Stage 3 is the “Get over it” stage. you no longer believe the previous place was better, maybe you remembered why you left it in the first place, maybe something happened to help you feel more welcomed in the new place. Maybe you met good friends, or found the things you were missing. for whatever reason the new location starts to feel like home. This final stage is acceptance, this is the place you when you no longer want to move away from this place, or will find it difficult to. This is when you accept the place for what it truly is, problems and all.

Now this globe trotting friend of my student has a good idea of seeing the world, but 2 factors come into play I fear. First:  Vancouver is the most Asian city outside Asia and so acclimating here is not difficult for him.  Second: He’ll never pass the wow factor and truly understand the places he’s moving to.

Having just moved back from China myself, less than a year ago I feel I am on stage 3. My wife however is starting stage 2, and the kids are still in stage 1.

What happened to us?

Maybe it’s just this area of BC, but Vancouver is more alien to me than any place I have been. Maybe I have just been gone too long. but How did we go from this sign:

DSCF7101(Remember these, short, made sense, didn’t want the driver to be distracted and crash…. ahh good times.)

to This sign:DSC_0002[1] (please don’t beat on the driver)

Have we really gotten that more violent since I left Canada?

I always took the second sign as a precautionary measure. All the bus drivers have been pretty cool, who would want to hurt these guys and gals that take us places we can’t go otherwise? But last night changed that for me…

I was taking the last direct bus home last night when half way through the trip someone came on, and stood at the front of the bus. The bus driver politely asked him to sit down. But the man’s Pass-card didn’t work on the new system. So he yelled at the driver. The bus driver gave him the ok to sit down anyways. the man refused. The bus driver stopped the bus at the next stop and asked the man to sit down, as it is dangerous to be standing at the front door of a moving bus. When the man continued to yell, the bus driver opened the door and asked him to leave.

The man threw his fist up in a boxing stance and refused.so we sat thee 1/2 way home as the man threatened to hit the driver and the driver calmly called transit police to come get the man. A passenger tried to reason with the man, but he didn’t want anything but to fight the driver, and wouldn’t “sitting like a chicken-$#!t”

I shake my head in shame.

I used to be very proud of my country, but living in this part of Canada makes me ashamed. The violence, the attitude, the lack of respect for each other.

3 times in the last month we have been awoken by a fire alarm close to midnight. Now the Rumor was that someone had been stuck in the elevator each time and that was their cry for help. Well we’ve had the repair man by several times, no victims of elevator-human relations….

Turns out there is a couple upstairs that whenever they get into a fight, it’s not enough for the husband / boyfriend to storm out and cool off, no he’s got to pull the fire alarm. Management has asked them to leave.

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